Choose to THRIVE is a challenging book written for high-achieving women. Debbie’s style of direct and to the point communication style is refreshing. She openly shares her challenges and life experience in order to encourage her reader to address her own issues.
In the book Debbie shares 9 character qualities most high-achieving women possess and how they can cause problems in our lives. I found myself relating to many of the qualities as I am sure you will too.
I enjoyed the style of Debbie’s book. She points out the qualities, how they can cause a problem when unbalanced and then shares how she found balance in her own life. Each chapter ends with questions to help you examine yourself and begin the process of working on finding your balance.
The chapter that impacted me the most was the one one perfectionism. I have known that I have this character quality all my life and I have worked hard to put people before perfection but I often still find myself struggling it and not even realizing I’m doing it. Here is an excerpt from Debbie’s chapter addressing perfectionism.
It takes a conscious effort to step back and look at what we are asking for. Does it leave room for people, including ourselves, to do what they do best? Or does it pigeonhole them into doing things the way we think is best? Do people believe they have the latitude to take calculated risks without harsh repercussions? Do you give yourself grace when you mess up? Do you give your child grace when they don’t do as well as you think they should have? Are we leaving room for God to work?
Perfectionism is something I have been aware of in my life for a long time. I was challenged and encouraged by the way Debbie addressed her struggle with perfectionism. If you consider yourself a high-achiever I’m sure that you will benefit from reading Choose to THRIVE and examining some of the inner conflicts you face.